GF question

[MattyIce]

So I started dating this chick a couple weeks ago, we talked and she said she hadn't been seeing or dating anyone in a while. Today I picked up her phone answer a text for her, and it opened a thread where I read she has been fucking and chasing after a guy I've known for 20 years since November. Accompanied by pics and a lot of sex talk and shit.

How would you feel or react? I realize it ultimately is none of my business what she did before we started hanging out, but damn. Lol
Thanks!

 

[R2D2]

So I started dating this chick a couple weeks ago, we talked and she said she hadn't been seeing or dating anyone in a while. Today I picked up her phone answer a text for her, and it opened a thread where I read she has been fucking and chasing after a guy I've known for 20 years since November. Accompanied by pics and a lot of sex talk and shit.

How would you feel or react? I realize it ultimately is none of my business what she did before we started hanging out, but damn. Lol
Thanks!

I'd keep her on a short leash for a bit. She could be a ho

 

[millenium girl]

I would confront her and see what she says.

 

[Baited]

You two are dating and she said she isn't seeing anyone else, but she's hooking up with that guy? Or that was before you?

If she lied about not seeing anyone else then I'd ditch her. Starting a relationship with a lie never ends well

 

[bandit]

So I started dating this chick a couple weeks ago, we talked and she said she hadn't been seeing or dating anyone in a while. Today I picked up her phone answer a text for her, and it opened a thread where I read she has been fucking and chasing after a guy I've known for 20 years since November. Accompanied by pics and a lot of sex talk and shit.

How would you feel or react? I realize it ultimately is none of my business what she did before we started hanging out, but damn. Lol
Thanks!

Fucking and chasing a guy is not seeing or dating someone. So i dont really think she lied in that sense. Sit back and enjoy the ride and see where it goes. Just dont put your heart into it too quick.

 

[TheMuscleMan]

I would be a bit leary of her seeing she implied that there wasn't anyone for awhile before you but she used her wording to get a technicality in there if needed, that being her f`ing and chasing a guy for awhile where she kind of made it seem you were the only one from then till now. She didn't say it so you cant hold her to it as a lie but it was misleading so I would keep a watch on her because even with you in the picture now she might still resort to the ways of before.

Thanks
TMM

 

[Jinko]

I'd sleep with her for while, then move on.

 

[Hogslayer]

You'll never be able to totally clear your head regarding all the sex talk shit you read when you look at her. Had a girlfriend ONCE that started to talk that type of shit about her ex husband and I was like some things are better left unsaid. Right then I knew we were done. I'm not Dr Phil and it's disrespectful to talk about ex partners. In your case I guess "IT'S BEEN AWHILE" means 2 weeks adios amigo

 

[blasson]

Id chunk the deuces. But that's me. Too many fish in the sea to try and make a relationship work with a woman who used to bang your friend. Just not my cup of tea. Unless you're just trying to get some and not take it any further.


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[Dago]

Move on the feelings will fade man. Sounds like you have some morals and she doesn't. Good luck

 

[MattyIce]

All good advice, not sure it's dump-worthy situation. In the past I would have, but I'm older now and thinking I'll meet a woman nowadays who isn't playing social media, date sites, hook up sites and or sexting 1 or more gents AND is compatible to my needs... is a bit foolish.

Hog was right though, almost every time I look at her it's the first thing to cross my mind. Damn.

 

[misterB]

you should never have to compromise on respect and values.

 

[Juiced]

I'd beat feet... Don't confront her, it will start a fight... To make good woman or there to be seeing, dating, fucking other dudes. If there is you and him, there are more.