Blasson, you should always get tested!!! At least once a year, its not so important now your married unless it starts burning like hell when you piss! Lol!!! When I was single, I was a bit of a man whore, especially at college, but I was always paranoid about std's so I would get tested as often as I could. Most of the time I tested at my doc but also tested at planet parenthood and I think it was free. It's been few years since I've tested (married) but they would use this big long qtip looking thing and swab the inside of your piss hole and it felt so uncomfortable, hurt a little, but felt so weird for hours after. Then I've had blood work done to test too. Some of the std's can cause some issues if left untreated so it is definitely wise to just look into being tested, at least, for peace of mind!