This goes for men and women alike but I rarely just ever get the in between.
People think I'm either one the nicest people they ever met or they think I'm an asshole. Wtf.
A weeks back at my old gym I was taking to girl and she says to me "of my god your so cool nice guy I thought you were such a dick when I first met you" truth be told I don't remember meeting her the 1st time. But you get what I mean.
Then just Monday this guy that see's me at the gym says to me oh "it's cool you made it over here" then starts going on how he was shocked that one his buddies said I was an asshole and he said to him "are you kidding he's probably one of the nicest guy I ever met"
I guess maybe sometimes when I get into my zone I just don't notice being an asshole.
Of course now that some people think in such a nice guy I get way too many people trying to talk and ask for advice. I love helping people out but time is gold nowadays.
So what you guys think? Is it better just to shut everyone out and let the whole world think your just a dick? Or do you find yourself talking and giving people advice all the time??
People think I'm either one the nicest people they ever met or they think I'm an asshole. Wtf.
A weeks back at my old gym I was taking to girl and she says to me "of my god your so cool nice guy I thought you were such a dick when I first met you" truth be told I don't remember meeting her the 1st time. But you get what I mean.
Then just Monday this guy that see's me at the gym says to me oh "it's cool you made it over here" then starts going on how he was shocked that one his buddies said I was an asshole and he said to him "are you kidding he's probably one of the nicest guy I ever met"
I guess maybe sometimes when I get into my zone I just don't notice being an asshole.
Of course now that some people think in such a nice guy I get way too many people trying to talk and ask for advice. I love helping people out but time is gold nowadays.
So what you guys think? Is it better just to shut everyone out and let the whole world think your just a dick? Or do you find yourself talking and giving people advice all the time??