I've been with this girl for a couple years. It was kinda crazy how fast things went. We work together kinda. She drives truck for the construction outfit I work for. We kinda fell for eachothers right off the get. She was engaged at the time so I didn't push it.
She ended up breaking it off and we just jumped right in happy as ever. The first year was good. This past year just took a really bad turn. I had too much personal shit going on that just took a really bad toll on me. Severe depression. She just has so many demons in her past that she never got closure from. Her distant relative raped her repeatedly from the time she was 12-14. It really fucked her up cuz everybody in the family and the town looks up to this guy. She's dated some real assholes that treated her like shit and put her in the hospital from severe beatings.
Well she never let go of all that and took it out on me. She doesn't open up at all and told me I was the only person she told about the rape. She's had a tuff life but does good for herself. She just can't let go of the past. We really do love eachother but ended up stopping the relationship at Christmas. I went over her house a week after new years to get my stuff and we both just broke down.
She admitted that she went out with a guy and they did sleep together. I did too. It just wasn't right. We both didn't want to be apart but she was just so broken that she said she needed time.
We would text eachother non stop and she would come over 2-3 times a week. We would really go at it too thanks to prop/pse! I could tell by looking at her that she was just lost about everything. Her parents are getting divorced and I told her I would do better if she just opened up.
Today, she texted me that she just needs some time to get her head straight cuz she don't know why she can't open up to me. She says its not fare to me to have to wait. She still wants to spend vday together but give her a week to think about everything. She wants to try and have a talk with me afterwards to see where we're at.
I just don't know what to do. I know I fucked up in the past and she knows she did too. She days she can't forgive herself so she can't expect me too. Thing is, I do love this person and can't imagine not being together. I just don't know what to think.
No, my e2 is not high. Figure I would share my bullshit with my bros.
Btw, nobody at work knew we were together. I can't go back if shit doesn't work out. It's just too hard.
She ended up breaking it off and we just jumped right in happy as ever. The first year was good. This past year just took a really bad turn. I had too much personal shit going on that just took a really bad toll on me. Severe depression. She just has so many demons in her past that she never got closure from. Her distant relative raped her repeatedly from the time she was 12-14. It really fucked her up cuz everybody in the family and the town looks up to this guy. She's dated some real assholes that treated her like shit and put her in the hospital from severe beatings.
Well she never let go of all that and took it out on me. She doesn't open up at all and told me I was the only person she told about the rape. She's had a tuff life but does good for herself. She just can't let go of the past. We really do love eachother but ended up stopping the relationship at Christmas. I went over her house a week after new years to get my stuff and we both just broke down.
She admitted that she went out with a guy and they did sleep together. I did too. It just wasn't right. We both didn't want to be apart but she was just so broken that she said she needed time.
We would text eachother non stop and she would come over 2-3 times a week. We would really go at it too thanks to prop/pse! I could tell by looking at her that she was just lost about everything. Her parents are getting divorced and I told her I would do better if she just opened up.
Today, she texted me that she just needs some time to get her head straight cuz she don't know why she can't open up to me. She says its not fare to me to have to wait. She still wants to spend vday together but give her a week to think about everything. She wants to try and have a talk with me afterwards to see where we're at.
I just don't know what to do. I know I fucked up in the past and she knows she did too. She days she can't forgive herself so she can't expect me too. Thing is, I do love this person and can't imagine not being together. I just don't know what to think.
No, my e2 is not high. Figure I would share my bullshit with my bros.
Btw, nobody at work knew we were together. I can't go back if shit doesn't work out. It's just too hard.