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Girl trouble

Talked to her a lil bit today. She says she wants to spend the day with me tomorrow. I brought up counseling, she said she tried it for 3 months a lil while back and it just made things worse. I told her there is other counselors out there. I told her she definitely needs help whether she realizes it or not. Can't keep carrying that baggage around. Nothing will ever change.
 
I havent had time to read this whole thread, but I hope things work out for you. Have faith Brother.
 
Thanks jm. She actually came over last night with a big vday card, balloons, and a sexy outfit! Put rose petals all over my bed and stayed up all night. We really went at it. We talked. Went out for breakfast and came back to my place for some more fun! It was a good time. I told her I'm not going to call or text her. Not that I don't want to but giving her space. She called me after she left. I hope it works out. We'll see...
 
tbonexl said:
Thanks jm. She actually came over last night with a big vday card, balloons, and a sexy outfit! Put rose petals all over my bed and stayed up all night. We really went at it. We talked. Went out for breakfast and came back to my place for some more fun! It was a good time. I told her I'm not going to call or text her. Not that I don't want to but giving her space. She called me after she left. I hope it works out. We'll see...

Atta boy. It dont hurt to get them flowers or even a nice card out of the clear blue. surprise them once in a while.
 
I got her flowers a couple weeks ago. I got her a bunch of stuff for vday but took it back after what she said Wednesday. We talked about it today and she thought I was giving her an ultimatum Monday. Either let's do this now or never. But that wasn't the case at all. Baby steps I guess.
 
So I get a call today. She is pregnant. That's almost impossible with her situation. Chances of her having a successful pregnancy are very low... More shit to deal with!
 
tbonexl said:
So I get a call today. She is pregnant. That's almost impossible with her situation. Chances of her having a successful pregnancy are very low... More shit to deal with!

ooh no! That could be why she was also being very emotional. the hormones go crazy when they are preggo. Hope all works out.
 
She said she thought something was up cuz she didn't feel right. She thought maybe she was possibly pregnant but didn't think it could happen. Said that's why she needed time cuz she wanted to wait for her period. Didn't want to lead me on in case I freaked.


I'm wondering if its mine...
 
All you can do is stay centered and make sane, rationally thought out decisions bro. Good luck.
 
She did say it today on the phone even. That's why she was so scared to say anything. She did sleep with another guy not too long ago.

I couldn't get too mad cuz I was smashing pof pretty good.

This might be a game changer...
I told her that u can't get a paternity test till after the baby is born. She said she didn't want one and wants it to be mine.. a whole lot in a little time going on here...
 
That's the story of my life, jm. It could be raining pussy, and I'd get hit with a dick...
 
I've been spending the past 3 days with her, talking about everything that happened and the baby situation. She had an appt with planned parenthood today that I was supposed to go with her. I fell asleep at her house last night and when I woke up this morning, she said she talked to her mom. Her mom said she would go and told me not to go.
I just got a call from her saying she's 5 weeks along and there's no chance its mine. Her mom doesn't want her talking to me or having me involved whatsoever. This other guy already has 6 kids with different women. I know I love her but the past month has been hell. Now she doesn't want to talk to me cuz she knows its not mine. Very hard pill to swallow...
 
tbonexl said:
I've been spending the past 3 days with her, talking about everything that happened and the baby situation. She had an appt with planned parenthood today that I was supposed to go with her. I fell asleep at her house last night and when I woke up this morning, she said she talked to her mom. Her mom said she would go and told me not to go.
I just got a call from her saying she's 5 weeks along and there's no chance its mine. Her mom doesn't want her talking to me or having me involved whatsoever. This other guy already has 6 kids with different women. I know I love her but the past month has been hell. Now she doesn't want to talk to me cuz she knows its not mine. Very hard pill to swallow...

I know you think you love her but cut ties and move on. You can do better than this current situation, I promise.
 
Yea I think your right. This one was different. She made some mistakes that she'll have to live with.
 
First of all, I'm glad it is not yours at this point. It does not sound like either of you were ready for this. Wally is right. If it is not yours for sure then move on. Sounds like you have no trouble getting chicks anyway
 
Actually the chic at the party store drive thru wrote her number on my receipt. I told her give me a 12 pack of whatever will make this day better. She laughed. Pretty cute...

It's hard to walk away though. It wouldn't be impossible to work through our situation. I can't do it alone.
 
A lil update. I cut phone communication with her since Wednesday. Last thing I said was that I wrote her a letter and take all the time she needed to think about what she wants. I told her to not call or text me till she decides what she wants. Couldn't keep going thru a few great days then a few more bad days with her anymore. Basically out the ball in her court. I'm done pitching myself. I'm supposed to meet up with a pof chic later today. She's nice. Recently divorced with 2 small kids. My buddys told me not to sit around a mope all day. So it couldn't hurt to go out. I guess whatever happens is for good reason.
We both know I'm the better man in this situation. How many guys would honestly step up to the plate with the bases loaded and 2 strikes still trying to swing for the fence? She might try to work it out with the other guy to justify her actions. She did say she felt like a whore and couldn't forgive herself for what she did. She didn't expect me to either.
Best thing for me is to accept the things I can't change and do what I can for myself. I'm trying to change jobs so I won't work with her and pay off all my bills and get my credit up some more. Hit some weights and better myself from this situation. That's all I can do.
 

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