Thanks guys for all the responses. We have been married 3 years. She basically said her heart is not in the marriage anymore. She doesn't want the responsibility of being a wife. She's been hanging out with single females going out occasionally. Truly from what she says I decipher it to be she wants to go from relationship to relationship and end things once the in love stage wears off before true love starts. She basically wants to live a single life being a single mother.
She's been drinking a lot. She also lies so frequently to me about big stuff and minor stuff.
We have tried marriage counseling and I'm even see my own counselor but she said she doesn't want to be in a marriage anymore.
I've cried, begged and pleaded and nothing. She simply says she wants a divorce and when she says it she seems to be at peace with her decision.
I've tried everything y'all. She's got her mind made up to leave.
I feel it's for the best anyways, trying to be with a woman who lies everyday to my face is hard. There's no way of developing trust in a relationship.
One example of a lie was other day I dropped her off at a club, told her to take a taxi home or at very least I'll pick her up. I asked please don't let a drunk friend drive you home. She comes home early AM drunk and a drunk friend had drove her home drunk as can be. She tells me she took a taxi but I clearly saw the car dropping her off was a drunk driver who was her friend and wasn't a taxi. She then tells me some fancy crazy story about how she hailed a taxi down.
If she can't be honest about simple shit how can I trust her.
Yet she admits she lies to me often and basically says she needs a divorce to fix herself. Yet I say get your own counselor and fix it while we are married and she doesn't want that. She simply wants a divorce.
