OMFG… Can't cum now!!

[JM750]

Ok, so most of you that have been following my personal life shit that I have shared with you know that I ended up going to a psychologist because I was severely depressed and anxiety because of the kids. Well, he put me on Zoloft. That was about almost 1 month ago. So for a good 3 weeks now, I basically exhaust myself to death trying. (WTF)

The first time I noticed it was when I came home for lunch, and we had a quicky. I came, but almost died in the process! That was about 3 weeks ago. And then the next 2 times it was hard to cum, but I managed. Now, the last 2 or 3 times, I just can't.
So I'm laying in bed tonight cause I can't sleep (another side effect of zoloft) and I say to myself, I'm gonna go google it.

Yup, sure enough, plenty of ppl with my same complaint. I'm ditching the zoloft and getting my fucking sex life back! This sucks…..

 

[darklord]

im sorry bro =[

 

[erikgearhead]

I had the same problem with Celexa. I could last for hours, and get pissed off/give up before I got off.
Completely ruined my sex life, and even for 9+ months after I was off of it I had the same problem.

...then I found caber.

;D

Sorry to hear you are going through this bro. I know it's frustrating. I'm pretty sure a lot of these antidepressants cause elavated prolactin levels, causing the anorgasmia. Not too sure about that, but it seems to fit.

 

[Dago]

Delayed orgasm side effect of celexa as well I quit taking it. Zoloft made me feel weird erik

 

[Dago]

I had the same problem with Celexa. I could last for hours, and get pissed off/give up before I got off.
Completely ruined my sex life, and even for 9+ months after I was off of it I had the same problem.

...then I found caber.

;D

Sorry to hear you are going through this bro. I know it's frustrating. I'm pretty sure a lot of these antidepressants cause elavated prolactin levels, causing the anorgasmia. Not too sure about that, but it seems to fit.

erikgearhead
Celexa give you insomnia ? Or make you clench your teeth ? I was on 40mgs and xanax I dropped both of them.

 

[Gunner16]

My wife is a pharmacist and even though all that stuff is pretty much n the same class of drug it reacts different with different people. What I'm trying to say is that you could try something else for depression and be completely fine. I had to go through 3 different ones until celexa and that stuff works for me with no sexual side effects which I had with others. Talk to your doc if you feel the stuff was helping and see if you can find something different. I know there are some out that are supposed to have less of an effect on your sexual performance. Good luck and sounds like you have my kids. One of the reason both me and my wife got on.

 

[tunaman7]

Prami! Holy shit. I can go till I literally become frustrated and or cramp like a lady on her period eating clen. Prami totally messes with your dopamine levels and two side effects are insomnia and not being able to blow your load. I know a lot of guys would say "how is that a problem?". Well...its like working your ass off and never being rewarded. True...you do feel like a porn star...but...even most porn studs blow around 20-30 minutes...but I aint making no video and would like to blow within 30 min. I haven't found any real way to help speed things along...but...you do feel god-like when your lover has O'd out 3 - 4 times and you say "im gonna go and eat something" as you leave them guessing and twitching!

 

[Boltbreaker]

i am on klonopin and lamotrogine as a mood stabilizer and the Klono for anxiety I take .5mg k and 1omg lamo ED and I am fine! My brother went through same shoit with those bs anti depressants and I already knew not to fuck with them if I didnt want sex issues. The best sex is super passionate go at it hard and fst intense for 5-10 min max and both cum, thats when you have some major chemistry with the woman and she with you. Good sex shouldnt be lasting 30 min I mean from the time I walk in the room and she sucks me and I eat her and finally stick her maybe 15-20 min lol. Most women do not like long marathon sex thye would rather have the BAM effect leaving them like WTF just happened

 

[Paulrockr]

Im on celexa .... have been for years now... I personally have gotten used to the fact that its gonna take a long fuck I ng time. I have rage issues of of it so dumping it is not an option lol it fucking sucks but my old lady absolutely love it haha. And she dont mind finishing me off when im absolutly exhausted

 

[tunaman7]

i am on klonopin and lamotrogine as a mood stabilizer and the Klono for anxiety I take .5mg k and 1omg lamo ED and I am fine! My brother went through same shoit with those bs anti depressants and I already knew not to fuck with them if I didnt want sex issues. The best sex is super passionate go at it hard and fst intense for 5-10 min max and both cum, thats when you have some major chemistry with the woman and she with you. Good sex shouldnt be lasting 30 min I mean from the time I walk in the room and she sucks me and I eat her and finally stick her maybe 15-20 min lol. Most women do not like long marathon sex thye would rather have the BAM effect leaving them like WTF just happened

Boltbreaker
Well yes and no. The part where im lucky is that Ms Tuna is multi-orgasmic...so...as long as I keep going she keeps Cumming. Now...this has been since I have been dosing the Prami. Plus we are both over 50 and have been married 35 years...im pretty intune with her body. Sometimes its hit it and get it time and when we have time then its time for a settle down multiple positional marathon session. So to say that most women dont want to go past 30 minutes depends on which lady that YOUR lady is today. Advice from a grizzled old man!

 

[Dago]

Ok, so most of you that have been following my personal life shit that I have shared with you know that I ended up going to a psychologist because I was severely depressed and anxiety because of the kids. Well, he put me on Zoloft. That was about almost 1 month ago. So for a good 3 weeks now, I basically exhaust myself to death trying. (WTF)

The first time I noticed it was when I came home for lunch, and we had a quicky. I came, but almost died in the process! That was about 3 weeks ago. And then the next 2 times it was hard to cum, but I managed. Now, the last 2 or 3 times, I just can't.
So I'm laying in bed tonight cause I can't sleep (another side effect of zoloft) and I say to myself, I'm gonna go google it.

Bro listen I'm no doc but be careful what kind of mind meds you let these docs put you on. Lot of these drugs haven't been studied for long time use and side effects can be worse than what you already have going on. I was on celexa for a bit. Another problem is you stay on the meds and feel like shit
Yup, sure enough, plenty of ppl with my same complaint. I'm ditching the zoloft and getting my fucking sex life back! This sucks…..

JM750
Be careful with those mind meds.

 

[lith56bigguy]

a lot of anti depressant meds will cause this. Mrs. Lith went through this also. I just texted her at work. There is one that most people can orgasm while taking. Im waiting to hear back from her big guy but I think its Cymbalta or something

 

[JM750]

Glad to see it aint just me. And i'm with you bolt, 15 to 20 minutes and I'm perfect!

 

[HARD AT IT]

I had the same problem with Celexa. I could last for hours, and get pissed off/give up before I got off.
Completely ruined my sex life, and even for 9+ months after I was off of it I had the same problem.

...then I found caber.

;D

Sorry to hear you are going through this bro. I know it's frustrating. I'm pretty sure a lot of these antidepressants cause elavated prolactin levels, causing the anorgasmia. Not too sure about that, but it seems to fit.

This right here to the T....... same shit, same answer!!!!

 

[lith56bigguy]

my wife just answered my text. Shes telling me alot of patients she knows switched to Lexapro over these issues and were able to cum within days again.... Note not everyone is the same but she said theres been more success, she was also ok on cymbalta

 

[LittleTom]

Don't really have any answer for you but having dealt with depression and wife and kid troubles and not being able to blow my load I can relate. Throw all that shit in the mix and than not being able to orgasm is not fun. I hope you find a solution brother but for sure you are not in this alone. For me it just took time and a bit of life sorting. Good Luck man.

 

[Akhusker]

welcome to the world of antidepressants! After about 6-9 months it will eventually go away, at least it did when i was taking lexapro. it blows bro, i used to get so mad, i found tricks that would help, like holding my breath for long periods of time, that always did for me, oh and focus, haha

 

[Akhusker]

my wife just answered my text. Shes telling me alot of patients she knows switched to Lexapro over these issues and were able to cum within days again.... Note not everyone is the same but she said theres been more success, she was also ok on cymbalta

lith56bigguy
not true for me, lexapro killed me, it took about 9 months on it before i became somewhat regular again

 

[RockShawn]

Yeah my wife was on lexapro after our 2nd child, this was her crutch saying it killed her sex drive and we didn't have sex for almost 2 years after 2nd kid. she got off it for a little while we had our third and she went back on Lexapro and same thing, nearly 2 years dry. That caused a shitton of problems but a whole different story. she's off now and when we do have sex her orgasms are very intense and she enjoys sex now. Anti - depressants are dangerous in my opinion, not to be toyed with.

 

[JM750]

Thanks for all the reply's guys. I'm done taking them. I don't care what the Dr wants to try next. I never really had any depression issues. Mine was more isolated to the fact that my kids were not talking to me and living in the same house. now that I'm out and the kids have come around and we are talking and doing things together, I'm not even sure that I need these meds? I'm happy as a peach right now.