So, to fill you in on what's been going on lately in my life…..

[HARD AT IT]

^^^^ This right there!!!

 

[massdig]

a bad story with a happy ending.

 

[Blueedge]

Hey that looks very much like panhandle of Florida beaches lol

 

[stonetag]

Oh Hell....that's just wrong! You didn't have to go and post that shit.........You Suck! 😉

I agree bro! Now I have to call up my son and tell him he's a lucky little (Big) shit....and go smack my ol'lady. Thanks JM

 

[Hanzo]

She is not Ms America and she don't wear makeup and all that shit.
But she treats me very well. And would do anything for me.

She must like the big muscley types (said in my best Austrian accent)!

 

[airagee23]

Sorry to hear about your situation bro. But it seems like it getting a lil better and thats the main thing. Glad you have found someone who makes you happy

 

[MuscleAddiction]

JM my brother...first WOW, to have put up with that for all those years, and then the grand finale of the new roommates and turning your kids against you, just glad you got out of that situation. Your new life has just begun with a woman who loves you for who you are, and props to starting it out on the right foot with total and complete honesty...good man!!! Love the picture...live, laugh, and love bro...like said above she is your new Ms. America and she adores you, time for you two to take on the world and have fun!!!

Now as far as your kids, they are brainwashed at the moment, hopefully not to the point of no return but honestly it isn't their fault. They will need their dad at some point and you need to do whatever it takes to make sure you are making an effort to be in their lives, you are their dad!!! You give them what they need from their father and they will look back and see the truth, make up their own minds what happened, and will know you did the best you could for them.

Glad you are happy...just keep doing the next right thing in life and follow your path, and always take care of número uno.

 

[JM750]

JM my brother...first WOW, to have put up with that for all those years, and then the grand finale of the new roommates and turning your kids against you, just glad you got out of that situation. Your new life has just begun with a woman who loves you for who you are, and props to starting it out on the right foot with total and complete honesty...good man!!! Love the picture...live, laugh, and love bro...like said above she is your new Ms. America and she adores you, time for you two to take on the world and have fun!!!

Now as far as your kids, they are brainwashed at the moment, hopefully not to the point of no return but honestly it isn't their fault. They will need their dad at some point and you need to do whatever it takes to make sure you are making an effort to be in their lives, you are their dad!!! You give them what they need from their father and they will look back and see the truth, make up their own minds what happened, and will know you did the best you could for them.

Glad you are happy...just keep doing the next right thing in life and follow your path, and always take care of número uno.

This means a really lot to me coming from you. I am beyond hurt by my kids. I just hope when the time comes, I will be able to forgive them. But you are absolutely right. I need to take care of me first. And i thought about that thread a while back when I said I would never tell anyone of my AAS use. And this time, I wanted to be totally honest right from the start. and she supported me. Heck, she wants to try a var run! lol I need to have love in my life and to be happy. One thing that I did learn from all this, is that when someone truly loves you, there will be no doubt in your mind.

She is psyched to start training with me. And that is awesome cause I know it will push me harder. This girl takes care of me more then any woman i have ever been with. So I am slowly coming around. But I still got a long road ahead with the kids.
And I agree, someone is feeding them shit.

Thanks to everyone that posted in this thread. It really means a lot to me. And one other thing, as some of you know, I have been an alcoholic all my life. A yr ago when I decided to throw away the ciggs and booze, and get serious about training. Being part of a board with all you good people has kept me on track.
I have to pat myself on the back as having my kids not talk to me in over 3 months, is the ultimate test. The booze didn't win. My fucking weights did!

 

[tbonexl]

Good man jm.. it can be difficult to not fall back into bad habits during trying times. Much respect!

 

[RockShawn]

JM, first off, look at the shit eating smile on your face in that picture. And hers for that matter. That says it all. MA is right and a few others said it too, be a father still, don't give up. the "prodigal son" will return to you and need you. just be ready, it will happen with your kids. You know we all love you bro. stay strong!

 

[Walker]

Damn I hate to read all this JM. Sounds to me like you've got your shit straight though bro! Lotta great advise here. Stay strong and stay away from alcohol. Glad you've found happiness.
This is a prime example of why this board is such a tight knit community, it's not just a BB forum but a place to vent and receive uplifting support! Wish you nothing but the best bro!

W

 

[JACKED]

JM....you can do it buddy!!!!
What do you mean NO MISS AMERICA?????????????
That chic is very good looking!!!!!In life it is what makes YOU happy not what others think. If she puts a smile on your face as we all seen that it did in the pic (then shes a keeper)
painting rooms ,comforts you when you need it,cooks ,goes on trips,WORKS OUT,ect......
SHE IS A KEEPER................................
for the kids (time will bring them back to you)
It may not be tomorrow bud but they will be back just in time to say,,,DAD I LOVE YOU AND I NEED A CAR TO GET TO COLLAGE ;D
OHHHH AND DID YOU SEND THE CHECK TO HARVARD???? :-[
You are doing all the right things now shake it off and go lift with your miss america. ;D

 

[JM750]

I really can't say Thank you enough for all the kind words you guys have given me. And advice. Once I'm out of here and settled in with marl, I'll do a follow up on how things are going. The only thing i got left to move is my Ironmaster smith machine and a few clothes.
BTW, that pic was taken in Costa rica a few yrs ago when she took me there.

 

[jshredz]

JM thanks for sharing your life with us bro. You've been thru a lot and I commend for the decisions you have made and the patience you've had.
The way I see it you hit rock bottom and now your on your way back to the top! Enjoy your relationship. Sounds to me like you found a good women that appreciates you.
Your a good dude from what I can tell and you deserve at least a little bit of happiness

 

[misterB]

hang in there pal, im doing the divorce route and it sucks but everyone's happier, kids too

 

[ajdonutz]

Good luck man. Glad you're getting out. Sounds like a rocky road... hope everything gets better

 

[pulooooooo]

Hope everything goes well for you, and works out the best for you. Karma will come back and get its revenge. I couldnt imagine going through half the shit you posted, and it takes alot to express yourself. Time to make your self happy.

 

[GoPro]

Brother JM!!!! Good to hear from you, but I guess not this news though. My heart breaks for you man. I understand the feeling but fom a reverse situation growing up with my dad cause mom made him out to be the devil. But I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts brother. Glad to hear you are happy now though. Everyone deserves something bro. Gods Speed man!!! 🙂

 

[stonetag]

hang in there pal, im doing the divorce route and it sucks but everyone's happier, kids too

Something in the water bro! I know so many bro's going through a "D" right now it's insane.

 

[MuscleAddiction]

Something in the water bro! I know so many bro's going through a "D" right now it's insane.

Yup...seems to me that with the access to social media, Facebook, Instagram, and all these sites where people go and see "the grass looks greener" on the other side and get people to start fantasizing about what they think they could have with someone else. I have a bro of mine who had been married blissfully for over 10 years to his wife, never argued, he treated her like a Queen, and she treated him like a King. She had a hysterectomy and he swears it changed her for the worse...which came to find out when she was recovering and he was caring for her, running the business, taking care of the kids, and doing what a good husband would do while she was having a Facebook affair with an old boyfriend, and it got ugly to the point she left him, took the kids, house, business, tried to take his mothers house, wouldn't talk to him, turned the kids against him too...just one wicked woman, and it was Facebook that was part of the cause...fucking unreal!!! He is taking it day by day not to put lead in his head!!!

This world and all this technology and social media gives people an opportunity to be someone they normally wouldn't be...and I am sure cheating is on the rise as well!!!

Love ya JM, glad you landed on your two feet with an incredible woman!!! Just don't forget those kids of yours!!!