Inhave no idea whos still member her but ive been gone for over a year i think..... Any ill try and keep this short cuz its long as fuck. I moved back to bay area met the girl of my dreams fell in love got her pregnant. I was there for her the whole pregnancy talking to my unborn child everyday. Once we had our beautiful baby we decided to move back to the city where i own a house wich my parents live in and cost of living is way cheaper.
So i have a great job downfall is i work very long hours little did i know my chick is unhappy and going through lots of hormonal changes. So now my baby was 8 months we had just come home from visiting her family up north wich i could tell she was home sick. Next day we get into a huge argument i blame myself for losing my temper and tren made it worse. I said alot of bad shit and made the mistake of saying "its over im getting custody of the baby" inswear to god i never put hands on the woman i love!
So just like any fight i take off cool down and come home 1 hour later to my chick on the phone with 911 she tells me cops are on the way that my older daughter called. I walk outside and the swat team had shotguns and hand guns aiming at me yelling for me to put my hands up and turn around. Turns out her family member made the first call and said i had a gun on 911 she said i didnt have weapons. I had a unloaded pistol in my vehicle wich we took witb us to try and sell to her family. Cops tore up my home looking for the guns my dad told them hes in back of your car just ask him. I told them where all of them were i cooperated 100%
So now im sitting in jail landed on a weekend so i have 4 days to stress out with 2 felonies and 1 misdemeanor. While im locked up my chick took everything i mean everything with no intent to come back. I waited 4 days so they can reduce my bail it dropped drastically and everything reduced to misdemeanor so it was a good sign. I got out she refused a restraining order and 1st cout date i knew my public defender wasnt gonma do shit for me and the DA ordered a stay away order. Turns out on police report she made some disgusting insulting accusations i call it that because i love her and my baby and to accuse me like she did hurts me beyond belief.
So its been 2 months now inhad to spend $4000 just on lawyer miss a bunch of work and pay for bail every month. To add insult she slapps me with a restraining order now 4 hours away from where i live. I read the report and omg! Thank you god is all i thought she had a super twisted different version of what happened that day. I had 5 days to prepare to go contest on my own without lawyer. Lets just say i fucken smoked her in court pointed out her lies inwas equipped with original police report 911 call transcripts and her new thought out story on her restraining order. It wasnt long before the judge chewed her out and told her she has no credibility and her restraining order was rejected!!
I have been through hell last 2 months absolutely devastated im so attached to my baby and i was such a good dad for once in my life. Almost everyday i had to work with shit on my mind crying all the time nightmares. Im literally days maybe weeks before my attorney gathers everything and all this gets dismiss i cant wait to see my baby and there is nothing stopping me now from getting joint custody. This chick had the nerve to put down no visitation for me wtf! Well it all backfired on her jist goes to show a woman can destroy your life sad part is she probably is gonma want to work things out since it didnt go her way.
So i have a great job downfall is i work very long hours little did i know my chick is unhappy and going through lots of hormonal changes. So now my baby was 8 months we had just come home from visiting her family up north wich i could tell she was home sick. Next day we get into a huge argument i blame myself for losing my temper and tren made it worse. I said alot of bad shit and made the mistake of saying "its over im getting custody of the baby" inswear to god i never put hands on the woman i love!
So just like any fight i take off cool down and come home 1 hour later to my chick on the phone with 911 she tells me cops are on the way that my older daughter called. I walk outside and the swat team had shotguns and hand guns aiming at me yelling for me to put my hands up and turn around. Turns out her family member made the first call and said i had a gun on 911 she said i didnt have weapons. I had a unloaded pistol in my vehicle wich we took witb us to try and sell to her family. Cops tore up my home looking for the guns my dad told them hes in back of your car just ask him. I told them where all of them were i cooperated 100%
So now im sitting in jail landed on a weekend so i have 4 days to stress out with 2 felonies and 1 misdemeanor. While im locked up my chick took everything i mean everything with no intent to come back. I waited 4 days so they can reduce my bail it dropped drastically and everything reduced to misdemeanor so it was a good sign. I got out she refused a restraining order and 1st cout date i knew my public defender wasnt gonma do shit for me and the DA ordered a stay away order. Turns out on police report she made some disgusting insulting accusations i call it that because i love her and my baby and to accuse me like she did hurts me beyond belief.
So its been 2 months now inhad to spend $4000 just on lawyer miss a bunch of work and pay for bail every month. To add insult she slapps me with a restraining order now 4 hours away from where i live. I read the report and omg! Thank you god is all i thought she had a super twisted different version of what happened that day. I had 5 days to prepare to go contest on my own without lawyer. Lets just say i fucken smoked her in court pointed out her lies inwas equipped with original police report 911 call transcripts and her new thought out story on her restraining order. It wasnt long before the judge chewed her out and told her she has no credibility and her restraining order was rejected!!
I have been through hell last 2 months absolutely devastated im so attached to my baby and i was such a good dad for once in my life. Almost everyday i had to work with shit on my mind crying all the time nightmares. Im literally days maybe weeks before my attorney gathers everything and all this gets dismiss i cant wait to see my baby and there is nothing stopping me now from getting joint custody. This chick had the nerve to put down no visitation for me wtf! Well it all backfired on her jist goes to show a woman can destroy your life sad part is she probably is gonma want to work things out since it didnt go her way.
